Romantic Rain….

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Think rains, and you cannot escape your romantic side being unleashed. It’s the essence which rains create that makes you fall in love with it. Whether it’s the smell of the first rains that seduces you to pour out your heart’s hidden desires for your loved one or makes you take that pen to paper to express unsaid feelings in a poem or unleash your passion on the canvas with colours reflecting the vivid moods the rains get you into.

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It can make you sit home having hot coffee or just simply snuggling up with your love; it can also make you want to go out and get completely drenched. Maybe even make you do a little rain salsa .

With the rains coming in every year, there’s a different story to tell. The wondrous moments spent even while you just sit together and look back, give you a different high.That’s the magic of rains. Maybe the way it brings everything on a hold and lets nature play it’s part, it definitely triggers your mind to get thinking, being creative, being romantic!

So bring out the romantic side in you and enjoy….

Until next time….

Imperfectly perfect…

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True love doesn’t come by finding the perfect person, But by learning to see imperfect person perfectly.

I have one such imperfect person in my life who loves me, cares for me, adores me, brings out the child in me, irritates me, drives me crazy, makes me angry sometimes even makes me feel like kicking him . But I cant imagine a single day waking up in the morning without him by my side.

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Somehow in all the imperfections I feel LIFE is just perfect.

So how’s your imperfectly perfect life.

Until next time…..

HUG….

People say that a kiss is one of the most powerful thing ever.I agree, but people should know how powerful a HUG could be.

HUG can be of different types, so lets start

The Caring Hug- Its when you see someone who is emotionally and physically down and you give them a hug to let them know that you care for them and everything is going to be fine.

The Missing Hug-Its like when you are away from someone for a very long time and you miss them so much that when you see them you give them a hug.

The Hate Hug-Its when you see someone you don’t like and act as if everything is ok and hug each other and make things look as if they are ok.

The Safe Hug- its when you hold someone in your arms just to make them feel that they are safe with you and you are going to take care of them.

Most of all The Love Hug-The most strong of all its when you feel a different rush in your body just to hold the person so close to you and never let them go. just holding them makes you feel calm and peaceful and a sense of contentment.

Do let me know if I missed out anything. Feel free to comment.

Until next time….. Do HUG

Lets Hug….

The average length of a hug between two people is 3 seconds. But researchers have discovered something fantastic. When a hug lasts 20 seconds, there is a therapeutic effect on the body and mind. The reason is that a sincere hug produces a hormone called “oxytocin”, also known as the love hormone. This substance has many benefits in our physical and mental health, helps us, among other things, to relax, to feel safe and calm our fears and anxiety. This wonderful calming is offered free of charge every time we have a person in our arms, who cradled a child, we cherish a dog or cat, we’re dancing with our partner, the closer we get to someone or just hold the shoulders of a friend.

More on HUG in my next post.

Until next time…. Continue reading Lets Hug….

Break up / Letting go

Can time actually heal break ups and lessen the mourning over the love which is lost and eventually , you meet someone else.

But some break ups are different. no matter what you do, you cannot get over. Not a single day goes by that this person cross your mind. One way or the other this person’s thoughts will haunt you making your heart feel heavy.

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Its usually because the relationship is unfinished, but you can’t tell yourself that and you certainly can’t believe it. Instead you will try to assure yourself that you are fine until you hear that Song, see photo, yearn to share something or wake up thinking about him or her (back to square one). Even though currently you are not together you know that he/she is the love of your life. The connection with that person is so real, strong and magnetic that you are constantly pulled back.

The relationship hasn’t reached its potential yet, so it can’t be over. Who knows this might be the person you end up with. Your friends think you are crazy and you also feel the same about yourself.

People are complicated and love can be messy sometimes but that doesn’t mean it’s not love. Life is unpredictable, so for all those who are in this type of situation, maybe ONE day you will be with that person.

Do let me know what do you feel, have you ever been in this type of situation. Well i have been before getting married i broke up with my husband ( who was not my husband that time) so many times but see today i am with him happily married.

Until next time……

Love and Like

D I F F E R E N C E S   B E T W E E N

L O V E   A N D   LI K E

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster

But in front of the person you like , you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring

But in front of the person you like, winter is just a beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush

But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can’ t say everything on your mind

But in front of the person you like, you can.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy

But in front of the person you like, you can show your ownself.

Then person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes.

You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one you love

But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them

But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye

And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like

All you need to do is cover your ears,

But if you try to close your eyes

Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.

Do let me know what you feel about love and like..

Until next time…..

SARAH….

It seems as if only yesterday you entered this world. I remember holding you for the first time. You, my little one, were so tiny and fragile. You held my finger with your little hand and smiled up at me. The memory of that moment is, for all time to come, etched on my heart.

Everyday with you is a celebration of the day you came into our lives. Every moment is one to cherish,even through tears and tantrum. you are our darling little person, a perfect compilation of your father and me, my eyes, his nose, my attitude, his adventurous spirit. Memories flood my mind as I think about your first words (BAA), first steps, first toy(Minnie mouse) when your eyes lite up when you saw it, first step, food and other milestones. Each day, it seems I notice that you are growing and learning more and more. climbing up your playground ladder, counting till 50, singing all the words of your favorite songs. I look at you and I don’t see the passage of time.you are becoming a big girl and i couldn’t be more proud of you. soon you will off to learn more things(kindergarten and your high school graduation) with a few other milestones in between. For now I want to focus on today and celebrate every moment as it comes.

I was thinking a lot today sitting on my favorite couch about what to write watching my 4 yrs old play( as usual) when suddenly with surprise in her eyes she came close to me and asked me what am i doing. it took me good 15min to explain her what is a blog to which she replied -” oh Mamma its so boring, come lets have a tea party”. It was then  with a smile on my face i decided the best thing to write right now is what i feel for her My daughter SARAH.

Do let me know if you can relate with me.

LOVE…..

Love- a widely misunderstood yet highly desirable malfunction of heart which weaken the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and lips to pucker.

I don’t pretend to know wht love is for everyone; I can only tell you what’s it’s for me. Love is knowing all about someone and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them to tell them everything about you ( even your darkest secrets) without feeling ashamed, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they enter the room and smile and you.

Everyone says you only fall in love once for me everything I look at him and I fall in love with him all over again and that’s my friend is love.

My favourite quote for love— I love you for not what you are but for what I am when I am with u