If’s and Buts…..


What if……


Alot of people have an attitude that involves alot of “Ifs” and “Buts”. This kind of attitude often becomes a huge hurdle in the path that leads to success. When a person puts the clause of an “if” or a “but” they restrict themselves from doing things that should otherwise be done and which they are usually capable of doing.

Experiencing different things gives people an edge. Going out involving themselves in various kinds of activities give them a lot of experience and knowledge about various things.

Every time there is a situation where an “if” or a “but” comes into the mind we should replace it with an “I should”. Let of the fever and just do it. Even if you fail you wont have a regret that you didn’t try it when the time was there. without even trying its like accepting defeat without fighting…

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Break up / Letting go


Can time actually heal break ups and lessen the mourning over the love which is lost and eventually , you meet someone else.

But some break ups are different. no matter what you do, you cannot get over. Not a single day goes by that this person cross your mind. One way or the other this person’s thoughts will haunt you making your heart feel heavy.


Its usually because the relationship is unfinished, but you can’t tell yourself that and you certainly can’t believe it. Instead you will try to assure yourself that you are fine until you hear that Song, see photo, yearn to share something or wake up thinking about him or her (back to square one). Even though currently you are not together you know that he/she is the love of your life. The connection with that person is so real, strong and magnetic that you are…

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People often believe that the feelings and emotions they experience are determined by external factors or events. We come to these conclusions automatically, however if we stop and think its actually our thoughts that influence our feelings. Its never the situation or the words or actions of the other person, but how we perceive that situation or the person’s action.

Emotions are like powerful program that define our abilities: How we “Think”,”Act and “Feel”. Our emotions control the way we operate and experience the world. Basic emotions that we experience are

Apathy ,Greed, Fear, Lust, Anger, Pride, Courageousness, Acceptance etc.

Take a little time to consider your current state and you will find yourself in one of these emotions. In different areas of our lives we operate in different emotions, but there is typically one dominant emotion in which we reside most of the time.

What is your current state…

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Imperfectly perfect…


True love doesn’t come by finding the perfect person, But by learning to see imperfect person perfectly.

I have one such imperfect person in my life who loves me, cares for me, adores me, brings out the child in me, irritates me, drives me crazy, makes me angry sometimes even makes me feel like kicking him . But I cant imagine a single day waking up in the morning without him by my side.

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Somehow in all the imperfections I feel LIFE is just perfect.

So how’s your imperfectly perfect life.

Until next time…..